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The invisible 51 %

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Two articles I read this morning stayed with me the entire day.
The first was this uplifting ( sarcasm) headline “India at bottom in man-woman equality index: World Economic Forum” in the Times of India. India ranked a shameful 114 out of 134 developing countries , indexed in terms of man-woman equality. The gender gap is increasing – not the least because of an estimated 25 Million ” missing women ” in India.Missing because of female foeticide or abortion. On the list , India ranks behind Bangladesh, Nepal and Sri Lanka in South Asia! Meanwhile, “Incredible India” woos foreign tourists with exotic shots of spices, dancers and masks. Malls sprout unrestricted in Indian metros.`Disposable incomes in the cities are up and Bollywood is celebrated at the Oscars. Sonia Gandhi is defacto Prime Minister. Welcome to the madness that is India!

The second was when I saw NOW’s press release on the much vaunted , so -called historical health care reform bill. The Dems agreed to the “Stupak amendment” which if incorporated in the final version that passes through the senate will:

* Prevent women receiving tax subsidies from using their own money to purchase private insurance that covers abortion;
* Prevent women participating in the public health insurance exchange, administered by private insurance companies, from using 100 percent of their own money to purchase private insurance that covers abortion;
* Prevent low-income women from accessing abortion entirely, in many cases.

In other words our democratically elected government has just thrown women under the bus in an all out attempt to get healthcare reform passed. What the Stupak amendment does is what the conservatives have wanted all along : reducing access to abortion almost completely , especially for low income women – those who need it the most. The amendment effectively will result in no coverage of any kind for abortion. Our female speaker of the house has just sold all of us out. Meanwhile, we celebrate “hope”, “change” and unbelievable Nobel Prize and the fact that this country is a beacon of liberty in an increasingly fundamentalist world. Welcome to the madness that is America!

Two democracies : one developing , the other developed.

One constituency that no one gives a shit cares about.

There is an old Chinese proverb that “Women hold up half the sky”. I don’t know about that – I’ll settle for dignity on earth.

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Something else happened.

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This is a post that I would rather not have written. It is one of those that is deeply uncomfortable and yet it must be written. Especially after the minor meltdown I had last week. Diepriye Kuku, an African American Phd Student at the Delhi School ofEconomics gives a searing and first hand account of the racism he faces daily in India in a piece entitled wincingly enough ” India is Racist, And Happy about it ” published in Outlook India. (link

Read it. Its horrifying.

Discrimination in Delhi surpasses the denial of courtesy. I have been denied visas, apartments, entrance to discos, attentiveness, kindness and the benefit of doubt. Further, the lack of neighbourliness exceeds what locals describe as normal for a capital already known for its coldness.

Kuku taps into the collective Indian subconscious and what he unearths is not pretty. He has honed in to the fact that racism is endemic – that it is taught in homes daily. Whats worse is that he has come to the conclusion that there is no motivation to change.His piece makes me deeply ashamed of who I am and where I come from.I don’t know if I agree fully with everything he says – I would , for example, not brand the whole of America as racist based on my own admittedly minor experiences- but I cannot discount his experiences .

Of course- as in any article on the racism of Indians- he mentions the fairness creams that are regularly advertised in India and the classified advertisements for the “gori” bride. There was a time when I would have treated those ads with the nudge-nudge- wink approach that I take to the all things connected with the desi mania for marriage. But lately I am horrified to think that this madness for fair skin, this equation of a light complexion with beauty is just a small symptom of the vast pool of roiling racism that exists everywhere in India and also in Indians.See this for example : there’s not much to choose between casteism and racism – two sides of the same coin.

Sadly, its not just faraway in the dusty lanes of Delhi that one can see this. It happens in our living rooms right here in the US. I have had desis tell me to my face that they would never ever agree to their sons marrying black women – but white Americans are ok. I have had to ask guests to not use the n-word because I don’t allow its use in my home. And every Hindu – centricdinner party invariably ends badly when in the course of some political discussion omeone says that Muslims are the cause of all the trouble in the world.

I despair of humankind. We are hurtling towards an inevitable annihilation that is going to start with small cracks and fissures based on our differences. Liberals vs democrats, browns vs blacks, blacks vs whites, feminists vs conservatives, upper castes vs lower castes, Hindus va Muslims, Immigrants vs Citizens . Sometimes I think that civilization is a thin veneer over what is ultimately savagery. We are tribal and cling to our tribes and exclude and spit on all others. The latest and sickening example of this tribalism was the defense of an admitted child rapist by the so-called liberal Hollywood elite ( link 1, link 2 )

In this rush to identify with our own and demonize the other, we are lurching towards a bitter end. I started feeling that way last year when I wrote this .Almost a year later , things are worse, infinitely worse.

Robert Frost knew this and that’s why he wrote:
“Some say the world will end in fire/Some say in ice/From what I’ve tasted of desire/I hold with those who favor fire/But if it had to perish twice/I think I know enough of hate/To know that for destruction ice /Is also great/And would suffice.”

There is no hope for us – absolutely no hope.

Racially profiled

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Ravi Shankar

Prof. Ravi Shankar is a published poet, and a faculty member at the Central Connecticut State University. On July 10th this year, he was arrested on false charges, and detained for more than 30 hrs in a NY detention facility while being hurled with racial epithets. His record only had an unpaid speeding ticket, but he was being arrested as he ‘fit’ the description of a 140 pound caucasian male, while being a 200 pound, East Indian male.

After being produced before a magistrate after 30 hrs of detention and being denied access to a phone call or a lawyer, he was let go as the original lookout notice was for a person of different physical description.

While, we do sympathize with Shah Rukh Khan being stopped for questioning because of his name, or race, or Prof. Gates fiasco – which was not anywhere close to a case of racial profiling (in my view, after reading the facts of the case in the media), the case of Prof. Ravi Shankar  can be judged the worst possible experience among the three, and something we need to understand and analyze, because of the unjust experience he had to face, for no fault of his and the insults that a few cops intoxicated with their power in the situation took unnecessary advantage of.

We decided to follow up with Prof. Ravi Shankar and fire him a quick set of questions, to see what his thoughts were and how his experience could help from avoiding someone else go through a situation like this. It’s also quite disturbing to see no media focus on an individual whose basic rights were completely ignored by the cops, and someone with a respectable job and background had to spend 30 hrs in a detention facility.

If there was one thing that you would do differently, on the day you were arrested on false charges, something that you have control over – what would you do differently?
I think I would have reacted both initially and subsequently differently towards the police officers. Feeling like I had done nothing wrong, I was still being completely cooperative. Nonetheless I was perhaps struck subconsciously with a sense of righteous indignation that coupled with longstanding apprehension of cops based on my experiences with them as a youth in Northern Virginia made me come off as less than completely deferent. This feeling was not helped by their bellicose manner and barked commands, which veered ultimately to racial slur. I called them ’sir’ and ‘officer’ but once I tried to give them my card, a new dimension of disgust crept into their dealings, and some class quotient seemed to enter. They were, if anything, more barbed and authoritarian after they found I was a professor, as if they wanted to put me in my place. I should have perhaps kept my head down and pleaded, but I’m not really even sure if that would have helped. One other thing I would have done immediately is call a lawyer. With my one phone call to my family, I should have instructed them to contact an attorney right away to help get me out of there. I had no idea that another thirty-odd hours was waiting to ensue.

What could your family have done to prevent you spending nearly 30-hrs in detention?
They did all they could because they were not given any information. My wife kept calling Central Booking and was told that I hadn’t been processed yet and that they wouldn’t take any request seriously until it had been at least 24 hours. They can keep you for up to 72 hours for “investigation,” so a day is nothing to them. They should have contacted an attorney who would have gotten me out earlier. It’s obviously one of those things that you don’t want to broadcast until you know the circumstances, but in a case like this, you need to be sure that you know what you’re allowed legally. Once inside there was little I could do and we were privy to such subtle moments of psychological barbarism as the officers telling us sometimes the files were dropped or shuffled intentionally, that the only order down there was lack of order and indeed in such chaos, in seeing those who had been brought in after me be called and leave for their arraignment while I waited and waited and waited, my perception of time altered forever and I grew despondent. At that point, there was no one I could communicate to except myself and even the occasional two hours meditation sessions only went so far. I wanted to keep my wits and senses about me anyway, being in there with 35 other guys.

Assuming that, you did not have communication problems (related to accent), were the cops fair enough to give your explanation any weight, or was there no opportunity to express yourself?
No – my attempts at explanation were taken as subordination and they didn’t want me to ask any questions or defend myself in any way. I was told to be quiet and listen, was made to go through a sobriety check that I passed only to be administered a breathilyzer as if they were always going to give it to me, and was called an “idiot” and a “sand nigger.” It was beyond shabby treatment but in that situation you have no rights and anything you say to provoke or further inject rancor into the encounter will only result in bad things for you in the short term.

Have you received a formal apology from anyone or any invites for beer summits with Mayor Bloomberg?
No – many friends contacted the NY Commissioner of Police and I will lodge a formal complaint with the CCRB (Civilian Complaint Review Board) but I have received no notice from any NY institution or person. Even the NY Times demurred on running the editorial. I am weighing my options now and having conversations. Mayor Bloomberg is surely too busy basking in Plaxico Burress being put behind bars than to have beer with me, but I would accept any invitation, for beer, wine or chai. I would be glad to discuss my experience with any politicians or social organizers who are willing to listen, especially if it can result in a change in this policy of racial profiling. According to the Rand Corporation , 89% of traffic stops by the NYPD in 2006 were for non-whites. Nearly 90%! That’s mind-boggling. I would love to help investigate why this is and what part Indian-Americans and others can play in making this less the case. What happened to me happens regularly to a mostly African- and Hispanic-American underclass and they don’t have the chance or venue to advocate for themselves. Having experienced this, I do and I want to shed light on this epidemic. From Professor Gates to Shahrukh Khan there’s something happening that needs to be openly discussed.

Are there any important lessons you learned from this ordeal?
Keep an attorney’s number in my wallet. Count each moment as invaluable because hours yawed into days while I bid my time on a concrete bench and I never missed those I love more that time. And Metro North is always, always the better option.

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Ravi Shankar is Associate Professor and Poet-in-Residence at Central Connecticut State University and the founding editor of the international online journal of the arts, Drunken Boat .

He has published a book of poems, Instrumentality (Cherry Grove), named a finalist for the 2005 Connecticut Book Awards, and with Reb Livingston, a collaborative chapbook, Wanton Textiles (No Tell Books, 2006).

He currently serves on the Advisory Council for the Connecticut Center for the Book, reviews poetry for the Contemporary Poetry Review and along with Tina Chang and Nathalie Handal, he edited Language for a New Century:  Contemporary Poetry from Asia, the Middle East & Beyond (W.W Norton & Co.). He is a recipient of a Connecticut Commission on Culture & Tourism (CCT) FY09 fellowship in Poetry, an occasional commentator on NPR and will have two chapbooks of poetry coming out in 2010.

Women’s Day

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Today is International Women’s Day. I cannot wish all our readers a “Happy Women’s Day” because truth to be told there is not much to be happy about.

The Times of India says so (link)

Studies show that a woman is raped every 35 minutes in India; female child mortality is higher than male by 25%-50% in India, Bangladesh and Nepal….. the average South Asian woman’s risk of dying in childbirth is a hundred times greater than for a woman in an industrialized country

Before we start congratulating ourselves on living in the US of A, lets pause to consider that the USA is also one of the few countries ( along with Sudan, Somalia, Qatar, Nauru, Palau and Tonga!) that has failed to ratify the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women. (link)

Whats more disturbing  is that it is no longer just  the Right that is standing in the way of the ratification- but also so-called Liberals. The Conservatives claim that it could lead to legalized prostitution ( like that’s a bad thing!) and removal of restrictions on abortion. The Left is worried that in a rush to ratify it, a number of  potentially damaging exceptions for the US are likely to creep in. Damaging because the US will be ,in effect , telling the world “Do as I say, not as I do “.

Me? I am sad that we even need to be discussing the signing of a treaty that would guarantee equal rights for women.  Women make up more than 50% of the population yet the fact that we have to even discuss granting them Equal  rights shows how strong the patriarchy is . It has influenced even women’s groups such as the Rightist (and wrongly -named!) Concerned Women for America to oppose the treaty because it is like – and I quote them – “The Equal Rights Amendment on steroids”. And what is wrong with that?

The fact is that all this opposition in born out of fear. Fear that centuries of systems -political, social and religious – that are rooted in the patriarchy will no longer have a legal leg to stand on once this treaty is passed. The treaty requires that that signing nations “embody the principle of the equality of men and women in their national constitution or other appropriate legislation.” Other so -called controversial elements include the question of easy access to abortion and contraception that the treaty provides. I do not believe that the signing of CEDAW will magically solve all women’s issues ( Saudi Arabia signed it and women can’t even drive there!). But signing it will be a start to working towards true Equality – a start towards accepting that women are NOT second-class citizens of the world.

I’ll be happy about Women’s Day when I know that the world is working together to ensure that women have full rights over their lives and their bodies without society, the government and the family  telling us what is right for us.

We , the people – with some notable exceptions

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The constitution of India begins “We, the people of India”. Nowhere does it say “We the people with exceptions…” . So I cannot figure out at what point the Government of India decided that a complete section of people can be excepted from constitutional protection. I read this article in the “Times of India” which deals with the court case being heard in the New Delhi High Court. A group of activists has requested a change to Section377, specifically a :

toning down of the act to legalize private consensual sex between consenting adults.(Ed emphasis added)

Section 377 of the Indian Penal Code is legislation introduced during British Rule in India which reads in part:

Image from npr.orgUnnatural offences 377. Whoever voluntarily has carnal intercourse against the order of nature with any man, woman or animal, shall be punished with imprisonment for life, or with imprisonment of either description for a term which may extend to ten years, and shall also be liable to fine.

( Image from npr.org)

This was a legacy of Lord Macaulay- who , ironically, in one of his better moments also said:

We are free, we are civilised, to little purpose, if we grudge to any portion of the human race an equal measure of freedom and civilisation

I wonder what he would have thought of the Government of India’s position, as was declared by the additional Solicitor general PP Malhotra in open court:

“Homosexuality is a social vice and the state has the power to contain it,” he contended. “It (decriminalizing homosexuality) may create breach of peace. If it is allowed then evils of AIDS and HIV would further spread and harm the people. It would lead to big health hazard. It would degrade moral values of the society,” the ASG maintained………Countering the contentions of activists, the government said such behaviour is not a natural trait but a reflection of a perverse mind. Read the rest of this entry »

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