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The dinchak* Swaminarayan Mandir** in Atlanta

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*dinchak = flamboyant (Bambaiya Hindi)
**Mandir = Hindu Temple

Born in a Hindu family and currently residing in the US and A, whenever I visit my relatives over here for any extended periods of time, I cannot escape the inevitable trip to the local “mandir”. Late last month, ATL had the (mis??)fortune of being graced with my (shady) presence. Of course, with that came the inevitable trip to the newest attraction for Hindu desis in Atlanta – the newly constructed BAPS Shri Swaminarayan Mandir, which among other things claims to be the largest temple of it’s kind (whatever that means) outside of India. So I will do arguably the FOBiest thing ever done in the history of blogging – write a short review on a mandir.

Below: Pond/picnic spot in front of the mandir. The mandir lies on a sprawling campus in Lilburn, GA about 30 minutes (or 3 hours depending on traffic) from downtown Atlanta. Pictured below is an artificial pond which doubles up a picnic area for the throngs of desis who visit this mandir. As you can see, construction is still ongoing as is evident from the sand mounds and port-a-jons.

Below: The actual mandir. This is as far as they (the volunteers) will allow cameras and photographs.

Like mentioned elsewhere, shooting photographs/videos was not permitted beyond a certain point. The inside of the mandir is a sight to behold, especially the main worship area. Since these Swaminarayan people are more of a sect the inside is filled with idols of their saints with the occasional idol of Hindu dieties. The main worship area is a huge hall chock full with these idols and intricate marble carvings. The carvings, quoting myself, would put Shahjahan to shame. Every single inch above ground level has a carving of some sort, quite astounding. The temple is on the top level and the bottom level is sort of a media presentation room bundled with a souvenir store. This room contains all sorts of neat factoids about the Swaminarayan sect and Hinduism in general.

We went early on a Saturday morning and by the time we left, bus loads of brown kundis were descending in droves on this mandir, not kidding. My guess is this will become a popular hangout spot for Hindu desis – temple, food and picnic spot, all in one and above all entry is free, desi ishtyle. Vaat to do on Saturrrrdays?

Interesting experience – my cousin, who took us to this mandir, was wearing cargo shorts and the dude at the entrance, where people leave their smelly shoes, before entering the mandir, refused to grant him entry. He tossed sweatpants in his direction and mentioned that shorts were “not allowed” inside the temple. From all accounts this is an extremely conservative sect. A cousin of mine, who works with an well known online media company in Mumbai, tried to interview a priest in the Swaminarayan mandir in Mumbai and the priest refused to talk to her because “she is a female”.

To summarize it, if you’re in the Atlanta area with uncleji and auntieji in tow, this Taj Mahal of a mandir would probably be of some interest to them. For non-Hindus/non-desis, this would be an interesting place just to check out some interesting factoids on Hinduism and Indian architecture and carvings, sort of the equivalent of a 21st century Old World Cathedral.

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  • Runa

    This is not gender discrimination :)

    You can spin it any way you want.
    Its not just Hinduism - this is an old patriarchal trick in EVERY religion in the world ( possibly excepting Wicca) to keep women subjugated.
    Woman = Unclean = Object of desire etc

    Never will the males accept that "lustful thoughts" are their problem -they need to control themselves.This is eauivalent to the Taliban banning high heels because it can"entice" men.

  • Mits

    Nishkaam is one of the panch-vartmaan (5 vows prescribed in hindu scriptures) that a hindu renunciate (sadhu) has to follow. This literally means abstaining from any lustful behavior. It is for this reason that Swaminarayn sadhus follow celibacy and do not come in contact with women. This is not gender discrimination :)

    If you had to meet the president of the United States, would you go in ur shorts?
    There is protocal that has to be followed anywhere you go. Even in the Vatican, you are asked to cover up! So why protest when the same rule has been applied in a hindu temple?
    Common sense would dictate that you dress appropriately when going in front of someone as great as God!!
    As for the sweat pants, :D what were you expecting to get anyway? An Armani suit? :D lmao

    hmm hindu saints??? Lets clarify that for you as well shall we?
    Shri Krishna Bhagwaan, Shri Ram, Shri Shanker Parvati = All Gods, not saints :)
    The only saints that you do see are the Guru's.
    A guru is given a lot of importance in Hinduism ( which you would have known had you read any scripture)
    Kabirdas has said (oh n btw not a swaminarayan saint)
    'Guru Gobind dono khade, kisko lage paay, balihari Gurudev ki, jinhe Gobind diyo bataye'
    (Gobind here refers to God)

    Hope that clarifies.
    Next time you are in doubt, just ask someone there. Assumptions don't help anyone :)

  • rohankumar767

    commercialized religion to the max .. it's all about money for these swaminarayans, aka b_astards .. they build large structures one bigger than the next to compensate for their lack of substance ..
    the discrimination of women is unbelievable .. even baby girls are not allowed to play with other baby boys in the temple .. baby girls are not allowed in front of these so-called gurus ..
    anyone who is a true hindu will know krishna is the true god .. not this human puppet they all worship .. and donate millions of dollars to ..

  • Balaji temple in Riverdale, which I’m sure you went to also

    Not on this trip. One was sufficient :-D

  • Strange that this Swaminarayan Mandir doesn't practice gender discrimination. I thought it was a Swaminarayan thing coz as Ash mentioned, that really spoiled our experience out here in Houston. This temple in ATL must be new coz the only one when I was there was the Balaji temple in Riverdale, which I'm sure you went to also.

  • Ash,
    I did not notice this segregation inside the mandir. My mother was with us the entire time we were there and so was my cousin's wife. Perhaps the two mandirs have different management styles or maybe they discontinued it after some controversy.

  • Ash

    Santosh, but what about in the temple itself? At Houston they had a rope separating off two sections: men were to pray in the front section (closer to the idols & pujari of course!) while women were consigned to the back section.

  • Sidhu,
    No way its only 2000 sq ft. I would estimate 2000 sq ft in the main worship area and another 4000-5000 sq ft downstairs.

    Ash,
    In this particular mandir, I don't remember men and women taking off their footwear in separate locations. But then I was preoccupied with my angry cousin who was really pissed off at being forced to wear those ugly sweatpants over his shorts.

  • Ash

    There is a similarly dhinchak BAPS Shri Swaminarayan Mandir on the outskirts of Houston.

    You're right, it does appear to be an extremely conservative sect, with men separated from women etc, and it really spoiled my experience.

  • Ain't the carvings awesome? I went there in its first week of opening and there were more Americans than 'us', of course most of them had a golden-colored-lungi type cloth wrapped around their shorts/skirts and shawl for sleeveless tops for women. An elderly white woman refused to go in when asked that her shoes be taken off, she told her family she would rather wait in the car..I missed my camera when two volunteers holding placards of 'please observe silence' were conversing with each other heartily :)

    Btw, I was amazed to know the 'biggest temple' was hardly 2000 sq ft(my own amateurish estimate), the catch is the land surrounding the temple some hundred acres is owned by the trust set up for the temple...

  • Runa

    Sounds extremely jhakaas!
    Jhakaas = more bambaiya slang for flamboyant /blingy :-)

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